The Natural
Systems Thinking Process:
Mother Nature's Path to Relief and Release
My adventures
with the Project NatureConnect online Orientation Course.
by Sarah Edwards
October, 2002
In the early
90's, the field of ecopsychology rolled onto the map with alarms
blazing. A flurry of books by experts from Jungian analyst Marion
Woodman, to cultural historian Thomas Berry, to social historian
Theodore Roszak and social biologist E.O.Wilson proclaimed a
vital relationship between Nature and our physical, social and
psychological well-being. But, the experts despaired, we've become
so disconnected from this link that both we and the environment
are suffering we in terms of proliferating stress-related
disorders; the environment in terms of severe degradation of
the ecosystem.
......,,,,,,,Since that time, despite
such protestations, our disconnection from nature has only grown
more profound. We work in a "cubicle culture" tethered
24/7 electronically by email and cell phones to our personal
and career demands. As a culture, we suffer from more lifestyle-related
stress disorders and manmade environmental problems than ever
before.
......,,,,,,,To cope, we pop Paxil,
Prozac or Excedrin PM. Americans spend 1.8 billion dollars
a year on Paxil alone and anti-depressants are only slightly
below blood pressure drugs as the most commonly used medication.
Most people either:
......,,,,,,,1) Remain unaware that
their chronic fatigue, dis-stress, deteriorating or non-existent
relationships and loss of community are related to a disconnection
from Nature and their own innate biological wisdom or
......,,,,,,,2) Are unable to do
anything to change the pace, limitations and pressures of their
lives to find less demanding and more harmonious ways to live.
......,,,,,,,Recently books like
Awakening to Nature: Renewing Your Life by Connecting with Nature
by Charles Cook have arrived in bookstores. These books suggest
that taking Nature breaks and bringing plants into our cubicles
can help relieve our frazzled nerves. Unfortunately, while such
suggestions may provide temporary relief from a stressful day,
they are purely palliative, casting Nature in the role of a warm
bath that will make our hassles more tolerable.
......,,,,,,,We seem helpless to
change our fundamentally frazzled lifestyle. Or that's how it
seemed to me before enrolling in one of Dr. Michael Cohen's online
courses, the Natural Systems Thinking Process. Over a series
of nine lessons, I learned that Nature can be far more than a
respite from our excessively way of life. It can become our guide
to a permanent cure.
......,,,,,,,I began the online
nine-week course with a small group of total strangers from across
the nation and beyond. Over our weeks together, we participated
in a series of Nature Activities pioneered over the last fifty
years by Dr. Cohen., a leading authority in applied ecopsychology
and author of the book Reconnecting with Nature. We learned that:
1. Nature knows
how to operate free of the disorders we suffer.
2. As part of Nature, we too have this capability.
3. We can do this by using our innate abilities to think and
operate as nature does, reconnecting with natural attractions
that link us to all other aspects of life.
4. In this way, nature can become our teacher, showing us in
non-verbal but irrefutable terms how to live joyful, fulfilling
lives moment by moment.
......,,,,,,,At the beginning of
the course, some of us urbanites doubted that we would be able
to find places to do Nature Activities. But we learned otherwise.
It is possible to do Nature Activities whether one lives in a
Manhattan high rise, suburban condo or mountain chalet. For example,
one participant in our group lives in an inner-city rental in
a major metropolitan area in the Southeast. She wrote, "I
am having trouble finding many 'nice' natural places to go to.
I have no forests or windswept beaches or whatever near me."
......,,,,,,Upon closer investigation,
she noticed there was an almond tree and several citrus trees
in her overgrown backyard. A grape vine grew rampant along the
fence and beneath it there was hidden an ancient vegetable garden
created by a previous tenant. Orange flowers poked out above
the blades and clumps of grass. Before long she also found herself
exploring the dog park where she walked her dog and discovered
a lovely stand of salmon-pink eucalyptus trees she'd never noticed
before as well as a nearby golf course. "This was all so
far outside of what I'd been thinking of as 'nature' that I'd
failed to see what was right
in front of my nose," she explained. So, once or twice each
week, we shared our experiences in Nature with one another and
established a bond none of us would have thought possible between
total
strangers who have still never met face to face.
During the
course, we were all confronted with one or more travails of life:
the loss of a job, moments of self-doubt, overwhelming time pressures,
the death of loved ones, and career crises. But within a short
period of time, we discovered how our growing connection with
nature could ease us through unavoidable traumas and help us
avoid others all together.
.....,,,,,,,One busy career mother,
for example, came into the course feeling stressed and pressed
for time. "I have been juggling time ever since my kids
were born," she explained. She'd even put off taking the
course because she worried how she could add one more thing to
her day. But once both her children were both in school, she
seized the opportunity.
"So much
of my daily interactions are around taking care of others,"
she wrote later, "especially their pain. Or as a parent
dealing with mundane tasks or having to be a disciplinarian.
It's hard to stay in touch with play and humor."
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......,,,,,,,But
this began to change mid-way through the course during a Nature
Activity she did while visiting a friend who owns several acres
of wooded property. There she walked to sit by a small pond and
was especially attracted to the wind, watching it dance across
the shimmering water. It was "playful, joyful," she
wrote and suddenly she wanted to make something beautiful. Arranging
a broken piece of birch tree limb, some bark with little lichens,
a few acorns and a pinecone, she created a thank-you gift on
a rock beside the pond for her hostess. "The important message
for me from this experience," she wrote, "is how much
I need to revive the playful, joyful, creative parts of myself."
Since then, she's begun making different choices about how to
prioritize her time and where to put her energy. In doing this
some things may fall by the wayside at times, she finds. The
house isn't always as orderly as she'd like. Their meals are
more basic. Her garden gets neglected at times and the checkbook
isn't balanced every month. But she says, "I am starting
to feel better. I have a lot more energy. I'm more interested
in my work and I have a deeper connection with my husband and
kids."
......,,,,,,,Another participant
was able to put the shock of an unexpected job loss in perspective.
The experience had left him extremely drained of energy but while
doing a Nature Activity in a nearby park, he experienced both
the physical and the mental healing effect of nature. As he drew
near a strand of shade trees, "It quite literally reminded
me of being held in my mother's arms as a very young child,"
he wrote. "It was as if the area was saying to me; come
to me, let me hold you so that you can rest."
......,,,,,,,He lay down and fell
asleep under those trees. When he awoke he "sensed how each
thing around me was connected to the others for its survival.
We're all part of Nature, relying on one another. I knew I would
be OK even though my job had ended. Change is constant and I'm
not going through it alone. The Natural world has been surviving
much longer than I have, so why not learn from it?"
......,,,,,,,Another participant
suffered the deaths of both a dear friend and her cat. On top
of that she was accosted on the street. She wrote "I have
had a week where my self-esteem hit a low and I was faltering
about the reason for being in the world, the grief and loss had
overwhelmed me and I was at my most vulnerable."
......,,,,,,,That week she found
that the nature-connecting activity "gave me a sense of
self-love and pride in my ability to defend myself. It was like
having a friend, a very dear friend, hug me warmly taking away
a lot of sadness and pain and shock reminding me to trust myself
and to keep taking risks in life, no matter how hard it can get
because I have the strength and courage to make it through."
......,,,,,,,While each week's activities
had specific healing effects on our lives, the cumulative effect
was even more far-reaching. Some of us began to re-evaluate our
careers, where we lived, our relationships with our loved ones,
etc. One participant decided to move to another part of the state
where she lived, concluding "I have decided to move interstate
to an area that is more aligned with my values and needs. I have
a feeling I am not in a healthy place. So I will be preparing
to move over the next few weeks." She moved before the course
was completed.
......,,,,,,,Another participant
explained, "This course helped me
grow emotionally over the past couple of months. I gained great
joy from the experiences that I have had and shared with my wife.
I am less wanting and quite happy most of the time. I have a
feeling of calmness which if it leaves I now know how to regain
efficiently and effectively through simple reconnection activities.
It gives me hope for the future."
......,,,,,,,This last comment sums
up what I found to be most important thing for me both personally
and professionally. On a daily basis we tend to get bogged down
in a myriad of worries, concerns, fears, habits, and issues that
are unappealing, unpleasant and even painful to us. Nonetheless
we cling to these stresses, unable to escape them. As helping
professionals in psycotherapy and other healing processes, we
assume that we must help people to figure out these problems.
We don't consider that by following our natural attractions as
nature does, we can make different choices to eliminate these
stresses from our lives.
Since completing
the course, I've faced several upsetting events in my life, but
I find I'm handling them quite differently now.
......,,,,,,,Knowing how good I
feel when I amconnected to nature and knowing that I have the
choice to feel that good at any time, I am no longer willing
to give up that feeling, even if I am in the middle of a frightening
or unpleasant experience. I've learned that at any moment, I
can say, "No, that's not what I want." No matter how
difficult the situation, I can choose to connect with nature,
to move responsibly toward what attracts us in the moment, to
choose wisely for myself, my loved ones, my community and the
natural environment in which I live.
.....,,,,,,,The Natural Systems
Thinking Process isa remarkable personal and professional tool
that can be used to heal us of a vast variety of lifestyle stresses
and the resulting depression, anxiety, and addictions that plague
us. In the process we can learn to respect and value, and thereby
preserve, the life-giving natural environment around us.
References
Berry, Thomas (1988) The Dream of Earth. San Francisco: ...Sierra Club Books.
Cohen, Michael (1997) Reconnecting with Nature. ...Corvallis, Oregon: Ecopress.
Cook, Charles (2002)Ü Awakening to Nature, Renewing ...Your Life by Connecting with Nature.
New York: ...Contemporary Books.
Roszak, Theodore, ed. (1995) Ecopsychology: Restoring ...the Earth, Healing the Mind. San Francisco:
Sierra Club ...Books.
Wilson, E.O. (1984.). Biophilia: The Human Bond with ...Other Species, Cambridge, MA: Harvard
University ...Press.
Woodman, Marion "Abandoned Souls, Abandoned ...Planets." Ryley, Nancy (1998)
The Forsaken Garden: ...Four Conversations
on the Deep Meaning of ...Environmental
Illness. Wheaton, IL: Quest Book
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