Just imagine how life on Earth might be more at
peace and in balance if 600 million people learned to deal with
the underlying ecological and psychological causes of our increasing
personal, environmental and social imbalance. Our runaway stress
and abuse problems are not found in natural systems or nature
centered people. They result from contemporary society's excessive
separation from nature.
Too often, our efforts to sustain
unity and wellness on Earth do not meet their goal. Our mentality's
estrangement from nature's balanced energies produces our apathy,
resistance to change and addictive prejudices. This is far more
than a social disorder. It is an ecologically rooted psychological
problem, a problem that begs psychological solutions. For young
or old alike, applied ecopsychology activities, methods and materials
effectively address this challenge. For this reason, we invite
you to use, teach and network the activity In Balance With
Earth and other introductory activities
In Balance With Earth is a unifying ecopsychology experience
for use year round and in conjunction with improving the next
millennium. It enables us to create and share moments in nature
that let Earth touch us and teach us its peace, balance and cohesiveness.
Because the activity strengthens interpersonal and transpersonal
relationships, it enables people to reverse destructive tendencies.
It is appropriate with friends and family and contributes to
the celebration of Earth Day, Arbor Day, most holidays and personal
celebrations.
Activity
Instructions
Select
here for condensed
activity instructions
(In Balance With Earth
is drawn from the elements of the applied ecopsychology book
Reconnecting With Nature: Finding
wellness through restoring your bond with the Earth by Dr. Michael
J. Cohen. and has been donated for public use.)
Time needed
to complete the activity:
Ten minutes
Introduction:
Although we are part of Earth
and it is part of us, the global life community does not exhibit
our personal, social and environmental problems. The Earth community
knows how to cooperatively relate in ways that sustain an optimum
of life, diversity and beauty without producing our runaway garbage,
pollution, war, stress or abusiveness. We biologically inherit
this legacy. It is in us. We often call it our deeper ideals,
inner nature, or, psychologically, our inner child.
The deteriorated state of Planet
Earth's natural environment and people infers that we educate
ourselves to separate from or injure the Earth community including
people. This activity helps you discover immediate positive outcomes
from treating the Earth community fairly, with respect, as an
equal or friend rather than as something to further abuse or
exploit.
Purpose:
To discover immediate outcomes
of treating Earth, nature and our inner nature justly and with
respect.
Object:
To learn how to obtain a natural
area's consent for us to visit it.
To enjoy the benefits from
obtaining a natural area's permission to visit it.
The Metaphor:
Bob: What would happen
if you walked past a complete stranger and into his house, opened
his refrigerator door, took out his sandwich and ate it?
Eileen: He would be frightened,
upset and angry. A fight might break out or the police called.
Bob: How could that disruption
be avoided?
Eileen: You could first make
friendly
connnection with the stranger, thank them for listening, communicate your desire, and ask for and obtain his consent for you to enter and satisfy your hunger. A
respectful friendship
might develop.
Procedure:
This activity
parallels the procedures (blue) used above in the metaphor about the sandwich
. Follow the instructions below written
in red and consider the explanations written in black.
1) Nature enables things to
build balanced relationships through natural attraction energies. Notice how you feel right now, then
go to something in nature that you like, that you find attractive. A park, backyard, aquarium, even a pet or potted
plant will do. Their attractiveness is a tangible sensory connection. It invites, welcomes and consciously,
feelingly connects you to them. Just like thirst naturally attracts
you to water, or contact with water may make you thirsty, you
are biologically built to naturally connect with the Earth community
through cohesive sensations, natural
"webstring" loves that feel good. The more natural
and attractive a natural area or thing is, the more worthwhile
the results of this activity. A goldfish or a flower may be better
than a wilderness area if it is more attractive to you.
2. Thank the natural attraction that brings
you to this area for being there for you. Thank it for
safely activating a good feeling in you through this attraction
connection.
3. Recognize that as part of
the Earth community, justifiably, this natural area or thing
desires and has a right to exist, build beneficial relationships
and grow, just as you do. Decide that you are going to respect its integrity by asking for its permission to visit it.
4. Silently, aloud or in writing,
ask this
natural area for its consent for you be there and do this activity
there. It will not give
you permission to visit if you are going to injure, destroy or
defame it, or if it will not be safe for you. In Nature, negative
relationships are not attractive; promise this area that you will treat
it honorably.
5. Sense the area for 10 seconds or more
in silence and respect.
Be aware of negative signals from stress, discouragement or danger
from it, such as thorns, bees, poison ivy, ticks, cliff faces
or unpleasant memories, thoughts or feelings. If they appear,
thank them for their "attractive" message to help you
find ways to obtain good feeling and rewards safely.
A. When the 10 seconds are up, note that if the area still feels attractive,
or has become more attractive. If it has, it has consented to
your visit through a multitude of your natural senses.
Proceed to 6.
B. If
this part of the natural area no longer feels attractive, or
is replaced by another attraction, thank it for its guidance
and simply select another natural part of the area that feels
attractive to you. Then repeat the gaining permission process.
Do this until you find a ten second period when a safe attraction
feeling remains for a place, color, shape or other natural thing. When this occurs, you have multisensory
permission to visit it. In that moment, many additional natural
senses are connecting
and consenting.
6. As soon as you gain a natural attraction's permission
to visit, genuinely thank it for giving its consent.
7. Now: Compare
how you feel about being in this mutually supportive moment with
how you felt when you first started doing this activity. Has any change occurred because you gained this natural area's
consent and thanked it for consenting? Does the area feel better
or friendlier to you? Do
you find it more attractive or rewarding now than before you
received its consent and thanked it? Do you feel better about
yourself, more supported by the life community?
Write down
what occurred and if you obtained good feelings or rewards from
doing this activity, what
they were and whether you trust them. Share this information with people
close to you or others who are doing the activity.
If you find that thankfully
gaining permission to visit a natural area is rewarding, remember that whenever you want to
feel rewarded, you can repeat this activity. Remember too, that
nature exists in people, we are part of nature. Thankfully
asking permission and gaining consent to relate to people's inner
nature also provides rewards and helps build good relationships.
It is also rewarding if you thankfully request that people seek
permission from you with respect to how they relate to you and
your nature. Doing this Earth Day activity may help them learn
to relate that way.
Learn to trust
the process and sensations in this consensus experience because they are safe, supportive,
earth linked, sustainable, in balance (multisensory) and they
feel good. In them lies hope.
Discussion
Question:
Earth naturally produces a
balanced optimum of life, diversity and beauty without producing
our runaway garbage, stress or abusiveness. Do you think it accomplishes this "miracle"
by having each thing in nature somehow establish permission to
exist with its surroundings?
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The Experiences
of Others:
Below are some reactions other
activity participants have shared with each other. Many additional
responses are located in the Archive.
"It was hot. Soon after
I asked for permission to visit with the grove of young trees,
a gentle, refreshing breeze came through them. It cooled me,
and the trees waved their leaves at me. It felt good, like the
grove smiled its consent. Thanking the grove strengthened that
feeling as does sharing the experience with you now."
"I was attracted to the
sound of a raven on the rocks ahead. I stopped and sought its
consent for me to enjoy its presence. It began to come closer
and closer, increasing my delight and excitement. That was so
fun and unforgettable. I feel thankful to that experience and
this group"
"My whole attraction to
the moss on the rock increased. I felt more intensely than when
I first arrived, it felt like a hug from the planet."
"Many times I have forced
myself to back away from the deadlines and details of the our
super demanding lives and return to nature. In every case I have
found the same welcoming feeling of self. In fact, I had to stop
today (a particularly stressful day) and gain permission to connect
from a beautiful maple tree outside of my office window whose
leaves are just popping out of their buds. People often ask me
how I stay so calm while they are all running around like crazy.
When I try to share the ideas of this activity, so many people
look at me as if I was the crazy one."
NOTE: Every
week, Project NatureConnect's update email letter gives you short responses to these
activities, like those above, from its online course participants.
To receive
the weekly email visit"
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Natureconnectnews/.
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