The Nature of Subconscious Relationships:
Sharon, an adult woman, had an adverse reaction to a blue block of wood
she had selected, sight unseen, from a bag of wooden objects. She blindly
selected the block because she was attracted to its shape and smoothness
when she groped and explored it by touch. At first she did not know why
she didn't like it when she saw it (g/o). In
time, she realized it was a subconscious reaction. The block was same shade
of blue as the walls of her room where, as a child, she had been molested.
The existence of subconscious memories and their effect on our daily
relationships has long been established. Although these memories seldom
enter our rational thinking, the hurt feelings attached to them often do.
Without awareness of the subconscious source of our discontents, we
have no choice but to relate in hurt ways to ourselves, each other and
the environment. Oblivious to the reconciling knowledge held in our subconscious,
even in safe settings we often feel vulnerable, frightened or angry (g/o). This produces the stress, depression. and
addictivness all too common in our lives.
The sense of consciousness, one of the 53 senses we inherit from nature,
is like a movie screen in our mentality. We are only
aware of things that have enough energy and support to appear on the screen.
Until a thought, feeling, image, or memory have the energy/support to appear
on our screen of consciousness, they lie out of our awareness in the subconscious.
As expressed earlier, in our excessively nature separated civilization,
our time indoors injuriously bulldozes our vital relationship with nature
out of our consciousness (g/o).
Unlike any other species or nature connected society, on average, less
than 12 out of the 540,000 hours of our lifetime is spent in conscious
sensory contact with the natural environment. This is similar to the unnoticeable
effect of a drop of ink placed in a swimming pool. The process by which
we learn to relate does not insist that our thinking seek the expert old
brain knowledge, feelings and values nature within and around us can provide
when we reconnect them.
SUMMARY C:
A thought, feeling, or memory that is not supported
enough to enter our awareness is omitted from our conscious thinking. It
may, however, on a feeling level, subconsciously affect our relationships.
OPTIONAL: On a piece
of paper, record the SUMMARY letter above (A: B: C, etc.) along with the
numbers (below) that indicate your amount of agreement with the summary
statement a)
as a stated truth (1-10) and b) as a 0-100 % percentage
of your daily time that you think you practice this truth. Note how you
feel about the difference, if there is one, between your a-score and b-score.
1.........2..........3........4.........5.........6.........7.........8..........9.........10.
disagree..........................so partially agree...........................fffully
agree |